Moving On

Reflecting on the 18-year journey of my marriage, I once felt incomplete, struggling to find my identity without my partner. The questions of who I am and how to move forward haunted me. However, the realization dawned upon me that our marriage was toxic, merely a facade of normalcy. Contrary to the adage that "God heals all wounds," I now view the end of my marriage as a blessing in disguise, bringing me a newfound peace within myself.

In the face of those who sought to control and diminish me, I found solace in the healing power of time. The journey from bitterness to inner peace was transformative, leading me to rediscover genuine happiness. The initial disarray I experienced turned out to be a blessing, offering me the time I needed for deep reflection.

While immersed in the situation, it's challenging to perceive the toxicity surrounding you. However, standing outside, looking in, I saw bitterness, jealousy, and the hardness of my partner that I had engaged with. This shift allowed me to recognize that there is a better way to live — in peace, love, happiness, surrounded by supportive friends and family.

As I reflect on my journey, I emphasize the importance of holding on during challenging times. It is incredibly difficult when you're in the midst of adversity, but standing strong, even for just one more day, can lead to the breakthrough you've been waiting for. Tomorrow might be the time when you finally experience the liberation and peace you deserve.

This journey has taught me to always believe that "this too shall pass." By persevering through the tough days, we can emerge stronger, wiser, and ready to embrace a life filled with genuine joy and fulfillment.